I have to confess: I really thought finding a flower girl dress would be easy. No way! I wanted an affordable (read: $50 or less) dress that would fit in with the rest of the bridal party. I thought "How much can a dress for small child cost? It can't be near what the bridesmaid dresses cost, right?" Wrong!
I started out at David's Bridal, where we got the
bridesmaid dresses. Why are the dresses for a person only 4 feet tall so expensive? Most of the dresses I saw were $80 to $130. These are a few options in our main color (purple) and ivory (my dress color).
They have lots of "mini bridal" styles to match your own wedding gown. These wierd me out a bit. No, I don't want a mini-me walking around at my wedding.
Apparently "sale" for JCrew means $125 down from $165. I feel like I could get this same simple dress in my size for even less. With a white or ivory dress, I'm concerned that the girl could never wear it again (and/or will spill grape juice on it within 5 minutes). While I'm OK with that for bridesmaids, I feel bad making the parents spend that amount of money, since the flower girl is really only involved in the wedding for about 5 minutes.
Having struck out at stores with established wedding attire, I started looking online. This is an adorable flower girl dress (just look at all that tulle!), but was a little bit above my price range. I was wary of buying the dress online, since I couldn't really tell what the quality would be of something labeled as an "affordable flower girl dress".
I struck out yet again with online stores, so I started checking department stores. Finally, success! With Easter being right before my wedding, lots of white "Easter" dresses are out in the stores at affordable prices. Plus, lots of them have some sort of color detail, making them wearable again for the girl.
These dresses are almost never labeled as a "flower girl dress". The easiest thing to do is go to each store's website, and scroll through all the dresses to find the white ones or the dresses in your wedding colors. This one's description says "for preschool or kindergarten graduation". Ummm, or for a flower girl gig?
Bonnie Jean
Crepe Dress at JCPenney (sale $30, originally $50)
Cinderella
Floral Dress at JCPenney (sale $40, originally $70)
This is the final dress I chose, from Dillards. The purple dots are perfect for my purple wedding! The dress was $45 in the store, but I found it for even less at
Sophia's Style online ($41 including shipping). I can't wait to see a little girl walking down the aisle in this cute dress!